Showing posts with label truly Octdad. Show all posts
Showing posts with label truly Octdad. Show all posts

Friday, 18 October 2013

Living with Children - Life is what happens right now

It's 3am in the morning.

Little Fella had just taken another dose of paracetamol to keep his fever in check. (please get well soon little boy!) and I'm having difficulty getting back to sleep again so what did I do?.....

Well, time to update the blog! Ha!

Time really just whizzes past and its been another month plus since my last update. This blog posting is tough! Nevertheless I will try and continue to update as often as I can....

Came across this write up in the latest Ikea family news catalogue and realised that it really strikes a chord in me. Here's an excerpt:

Children want to spend more time with their parents. It's a wish that doesn't come with any requirements. All time spent together has the same value. A visit to an amusement park isn't worth more than hanging out together in the living room, just enjoying being close as a family.Very often, the most ordinary things are often the most memorable that we carry with us for the rest of our lives. And the most precious thing in a home isn't the sofas or the computers or the new kitchen - its the time together and that's what counts. Time is valuable. But time together is priceless.     

Very well written indeed!

Here's some random pics taken from mid-July to mid-Oct 2013.


Waterworks @ Science Centre

Follow his gaze to see what caught his attention   =)

Playing around with mummy after shower

He's a cheeky little boy nowadays...

A moment with daddy during the national day parade preview...

Patriotic little fella! Ha!






One of the handicraft sessions at home...

Hokey Pokey @ Millennium Walk 



The musician in him?
The photographer in him?

Not bad a pic huh?

Mummy busy baking

Little Fella busy "baking" as well... Ha!

Yummy cupcakes!   =)


Sunday, 13 May 2012

Happy Mother's Day to Drama Mama

Hey Son,

Today is Mother's Day and since you are still too young to know what this day is all about, Daddy shall help you keep some notes so that you will know what a great mummy you have all along ok.

Well...... kinda difficult to list down everything cause there are too many to start with such as:

1.      Your Mummy is really still a "baby" (to Daddy at least) but she has take it upon herself to care for your well-being and look after your interests since the day we knew that you were in her tummy. (as you are now the official baby in the house) 

2.      Because of you, Mummy had to gain weight and "lose her figure" when you were inside her tummy. (It's a big thing, don't ask why, you will know eventually...)

3.      Mummy has to endure long labour pains in order deliver you to this world (this I'm sure Mummy will remind you again)

4.      Mummy quitted her job and became a SAHM (StayAtHomeMum) because of you. (Not every Mummy does it)

5.      Mummy learns new recipes and painstakingly prepares healthy meals for your daily needs. (psst! Mummy hardly cooks before you came along...)   

6.      Mummy don't eat before you are done with your meal. (even though she's real hungry at times)

7.      Only Mummy can deal with your poo and cleans you with minimum fuss (ok, Daddy is at fault here but there's something about the stench of your poo...)

8.      Only Mummy has the "mystical power" to "hypnotize" you to follow her instructions such as behaving yourselves in public and changing in/out of clothes during shower time.

9.      Only Mummy can relate such lively stories to you during reading time everyday (Daddy's reading is quite boring) and sings such lovely songs with accompanying actions to you before your bedtime everynight (again let's just say there's a reason why Daddy is not a singer..)

10.  Only Mummy can cut your finger and toe nails. (Daddy is too scare to do it)

11.  Mummy have done more washing (clothes, milk bottles, bedsheets etc) now that you are around then the whole of her life before you arrived. (tips: Buy some moisturizers for her hands!)  

12.  Mummy stays up late weekly to research and prepare your alphabet "lesson plans" (to teach you the ABCs), creative hands-on handicraft sessions and other fun activities so that you can get to enjoy and learn while you are at home with her ( how cool is that!)


and many many more. Really too long a list to write down everything. Bottomline is that Mummy is a wonderful Mummy and remember to shower her with plenty of hugs and kisses everytime and always without prompt ok. (Cause think Mummy already complained that you kisses your "sleeping companions" more willingly that you kisses her! Don't say Daddy didn't warn you ah!)



Mother & Son sharing a moment together




Lastly from myself to darling wifey:

 "Happy Mother's Day!" You deserved it! Glad to have you as a wifey and mummy to our son. You are doing good!     =)



Love,

Hubby & Daddy




Friday, 4 May 2012

My Boy at 18 months


Took many pictures over the weekend and have a number of updates yet to be documented. But guess the single most important thing to have happen to Little Fella when he turned 18 months is his eye ducts operation.

Although it was suppose to be a "minor" day surgery, the thought of having our precious little boy going through a surgery with G.A. at such a young age really makes my heart ache beyond description. I am sure that all parents will agree with me that no one will want to see their kids to have anything to do with a hospital other than the routine health check-ups and vaccinations. 

At such a young age, still unable to make any decisions on his own, the responsibilities will have to fall on us as his parents to decide on what is the best for him. And decide we did.

Since Little Fella has been suspected of having block tear ducts since birth, this has been the single most worrying issue (among others, trust me you will have 1001 things to worry about your kids) to have weigh on my mind ever since.

We have tried massaging (to a certain extent as little fella can be very difficult to contain whenever mummy tries to do it) and seeked the advice of no less than three different pediatric opthamologist's opinions.All the while delaying and hoping that he can just simply outgrow this issue.

Infants whose blocked ducts goes away normally does so by the time they are twelve months of age. As Little Fella grows older, the chances of him outgrowing the blocked ducts became slimmer and the success rate of a probing procedure will be lower as well.

At this stage there were many questions raised:
  1. Are we going to continue and wait in the hope that he will still outgrow it?
  2. Are we going to seek more consultations from other pediatric opthamologist?
  3. Are we mentally and financially prepared to go through the probing procedure?
  4. Can we bear to see our boy "suffer"?
  5. What are the risks?
  6. What are the side effects?
  7. What is the success rate at this stage?

All these and coupled with the fact that Little Fella is generally coping very well with the teary eyes. No infections or irritations of any sorts since birth. We have also confirmed with the opthamologist that his visions will also not be affected by his teary eyes. Do we really have to go for the procedure? Aaaaaragh!!!

 In the end, after many sleepless night of pondering, we have decided to opt for the procedure to be done on our precious little boy for the following reasons:

  1. He has passed the "average outgrow age" by six months and his conditions show no signs of improving on its own.
  2. We finally found a nice lady pediatric opthamologist with whom we felt comfortable to entrust our boy in her care .
  3. It will be for the good of our little boy if this issue can be corrected.
  4. The fees is still considered affordable and we want the best for our boy, that is no more teary eyes!
  5. At his age, he will most likely not remember anything from this incident. (it's us as his parents who will be more traumatized) 
  6. The success rate will dip lower as he grows older.
  7. As he grows older, he will be involved in more activities and classes and thus scheduling a surgery will then become trickier. 

Thus the probing procedure date was arranged on 30th April 2012 at 730am on a Monday. Tuesday was labour day and a public holiday. For many, it was a much anticipated long weekend. For wifey and myself, we can only try our best to suppress our feelings and emotions about the upcoming surgery and enjoy our time with the little one.

The night before the surgery. Little Fella having fun playing with dearest Mummy.   =)




Five hours after the surgery and resting at home on the sofa watching his favourite television programme.



It pains me to see my boy in this state, although I must say that he's a brave little dude and carries about his usual activities at home with minimum fuss. Except for the bruises and swelling, everything was back to normal as though nothing had happen on that morning.

His left eye is actually the eye that tears more but surprisingly its was his right eye that has more "blockages" and thus the bruises. The opthamologist had declared the operation as a success as she had managed to probe and connect both ducts from the eyelids through to the nose.

We were told that we will have to wait for about a week to see the results as it will take some time for the swelling and bruises to heal. In the meantime, we are still keeping our fingers tightly crossed and hope that everything will be as per mentioned and that our boy's eyes shall be teary no more.(please)

Here's our little champion (as mummy calls him) one day after the operation.


The swelling is greatly reduced but the bruises still remains.

Son, if you are reading this many years later when you grow up, you must know that Daddy and Mummy will always have your interests at heart in whatever thing we do okie. As much as we do not want to have this procedure done, in the end we feel that it will still be beneficial for you in the long run and thus the go ahead. As the verdict is not really out yet, Daddy really really really hope that we had made the correct decisions to let you have this operation.

Please dont blame us if you suddenly see pictures of yourself with a bruise eye for a while, trust us, we dont want it as well. We may not be the best parents but we will try our best within our capabilities to be one. Luv ya to bits


Daddy

Wednesday, 18 April 2012

P for Philosophies!

Drama Mama's recent findings on ideas/guidances to ways of teaching toddlers have greatly enlighten my own ways of thinking. Some of the excerpts from her findings are as followed:

~~  This is what I gathered after some readings. Creative, creative, creative. Never kills the curiosity of a young tots and allow them to be creative in their own ways. They are learning too, amidst doing some art that we found absurd. You know how we, the adults already have our own set of right and wrong ways of doing things in life. Despite being fully aware that we should not, we are always found guilty of guiding the child to OUR ways to doing things, at least I am......

................and some of the dont's when working with toddlers mentioned in the said website:

Do not have children do art with a right or wrong way of doing things.
Do not play structured games with strict rules of what is right and wrong.
Do not require colouring within the lines
Do not read stories that have little meaning to the child. 
Do not teach the child just by telling him about something. 
Do not regard child's play time as a non-learning time. 
Do not set unrealistic goals for young children. "          ~~


Well, today I've chanced upon this " 10 ways to get the most out of your storytime with preschoolers" which I find is quite interesting as well.

1 Get Familiar- Before diving right in to your next read, take a minute to look at the cover with your children.  Talk about the title, what could it mean?  What can you guess from the pictures on the cover?  What might this book be about? In addition to getting them interested in the book, this gives your children the opportunity to make inferences and think creatively.  They may ask questions that will be answered in the story.  What a great tool for building comprehension!


2 Make Connections -As you read, make connections from the text, to similar concepts or situations your children have experienced.  “Froggy’s mom is teaching him how to do the backstroke, just like you learned at swimming lessons today!” or “Do you ever have to help was the dishes like George did?”   These kinds of connections help children better understand events in a story, increase comprehension and make the story more meaningful.

3 Question Everything-(OK, maybe not everything, but my hippiedad would appreciate the 60s reference!)  Now and then, ask your children “why”.  “Why did he hide?”  “Why did they give the letter to Duck?”  Also encourage your children to make predictions.  “How will she get out?”  “What do you think he will do now that he has the treasure?”  These questions, once again, aid in comprehension and foster critical thinking skills, and they also allow the children to slip into the author’s chair for a moment.

4 Give the Words Meaning- As you’re reading, it’s easy to skip over words your children may not understand.  Occasionally pull out a word as you read and ask your children what they think it means.  They are often very good at using contextual clues to come up with a definition, a skill that will help them as they begin to read on their own.  You may also want to preview a book, and talk about some of the words before you read the story.  Focusing on a few terms in each book will pad their bank of vocabulary words and build language skills.

5 Picture This- Don’t forget to take in the scenery along the way.  Children’s books are notorious for fantastic illustrations.  Pointing them out and talking about the details not only increases the enjoyment for the children but teaches them to use picture clues to aid in understanding the overall story and making predictions.  These are skills that will come in handy as they become independent readers.

6 Make it Personal – Draw your audience into the story by asking what they would do in any given character’s situation.  Thinking from another character’s perspective also stretches the social and cognitive skills of these typically ego-centric preschoolers, and is another way to encourage prediction skills (see tip #3).

7 Point Out the Text-Subtly call your readers’ attention to the written words on the page.  Sweep your finger under the words as you read.  Occasionally point out familiar words and letters.  Pause at the end of a rhyme and let your children finish the rhyme, using the written word as a clue.  Let them sound out simple words as they begin to have the necessary skills.  Tying the written word to the words they hear helps build prereading skills in children.

8 Talk About Emotions- Because plots usually center around some kind of conflict, stories are a great way to teach social problem solving.  As you read, take time to talk about moral dilemmas and label emotions.  These activities not only enhance the connections with the story, but build social skills as well.

9 Extend- If you just read “The Paper Bag Princess”, make some costumes from paper bags.  Make your own green eggs and ham if the Dr. Seuss classic is on your reading menu.  Extending a book into an activity makes it both more meaningful and memorable.  Look under “Book Activity” in the category column to find examples.

10 Make it Enjoyable- You certainly don’t want to implement every one of these ten strategies with every page you turn.  Breaking up the story too frequently makes it incoherent and tedious.  The most important rule for a fantastic story time is to make it enjoyable.  Find comfortable, cozy spots for reading together.  Be expressive as you read, and really draw the children in.  Let your children choose the books you read whenever you can, and don’t hesitate to repeat their favorites.  If you do nothing more than create wonderful, happy associations with reading, you’ll go a long way in instilling a love of reading in the children you love and teach!


Phew! Its sure aint easy being a modern parent nowadays! However, on the same note, I do find it quite an eye opener to be able to view, digest and impart certain teachings which I hope will be beneficial to our little one.

So what other teaching methods/philosophies have you come across?






Source: http://notjustcute.com/2009/06/27/10-ways-to-get-the-most-out-of-story-time-with-your-preschoolers/

Wednesday, 11 April 2012

One Tooth, Two Teeth and Many More

Used to think that it is alright for the little one not to brush/take care of his milk teeth as they will eventually be replaced with the permanent ones, right? Wrong!

In fact kids should be exposed to proper oral hygiene since young and brushing the milk teeth regularly is an important step to achieving it. According to the pediatric dentists, if the conditions of the gums and initial milk teeth are not good, chances are that the permanent ones will be affected too!

And when is a right time to start brushing one's teeth? When your child starts to grow his/her first tooth and when they are being introduced to more solid food. As the number of teeth grow, the chances of food being stuck on or inbetween the teeth increases.

Now let's take a look at a picture of my cheeky boy again.


Plenty of teeth spotted (checked). Taking more solid food nowadays (checked) Time to introduce toothbrush!

So one fine day..........................



Little Fella made friends with a little blue toothbrush. And this was the easy part. Do baby teeth need to be brushed? Yes! Can a toddler brush their teeth effectively on their own? No!

Daddy & Mummy now have to think of ways to teach little boy to brush his teeth properly. As kids don't develop the muscular control and skill required for good brushing until sometime between the ages of 5 and 7, they will require physical help each and every time.

Toddlers are curious and playful by nature and one good method is to involve them during the parents' own toothbrushing activitiy. They will naturally be excited and will want to try and mimic the same actions, just dont bank on it that they will do a good job.

It is advisable to brush at least twice a day and to avoid sugary contents after brushing, especially during the night brush. Hmm...... Now Little Fella has the habit of going to bed immediately after his night milk feed..... seem like we will have to make some adjustments along the way...

All these information are quite intriguing as it reminded me to constantly update myself on stuffs that I took for granted. Think my earliest memory of brushing my own teeth were during the primary school days where we were told to line up along the school drain to brush our teeth, Ha!

   









Wednesday, 28 March 2012

There's Something about MINI...

At 12 months of age, Little Fella gets to own a Red Mini and ferry Barney around the house.





At 16 months, he gets to sit in an actual MINI






Now Daddy is really green with envy at the moment.....

So son, when can you give daddy a ride around our estate?

Tuesday, 27 March 2012

Anyone needs a child model?

Being a shamelessly proud daddy, I must say that my boy rocks the " I-must-not-smile-and-look-straight-at-you-in-the-eye-while-continuing-to-act-cool" model look.





So what do you say?






p/s: More pics at "Just Pics"

Monday, 26 March 2012

Underwater World

As Little Fella has been showing interest in fishes recently, we decided to bring him to a place where there will be fishes aplenty for him to see, the UnderWater World at Sentosa.







The place has more or less remained the same since I last visited the place with Drama Mama about a decade ago (wow! time really flies..)

Entrance fee is charged at $25.90 per adult and children below the age of three get to go in for free. With the arrary of newer attractions in place, I think its high time for Underwater World to undergo a revamp of its own.

Perhaps the addition of the Dolphin Lagoon is their way moving forward? The Dolphin Lagoon is intergrated beside Underwater World and one can get to visit both venues with a single entrance fee.

The main highlights for the Dolphin Lagoon will be its' shows at selected time intervals. We managed to catch the 11am show prior to making our way to the Underwater World.


  



Think overall the seal lions have more performances than the dolphins! We were seated right at the front row and Little Fella gets to have a close look at the seal lions in action. He clapped his hands together with the audience at certain times it was also the first time that he had seen seal lions and big fishes (dolpins) up-close.




Photo opportunities was limited at the Underwater World due to its dimly lit surroundings, thick unflattering aquarium glasses, tourists jostling for space and the general "clutter-ness" of too many fishes swiming all over the place. But hey, its always the experiences that matter most and good photo opportunities will always be a bonus.( some self-consoling here)    


Overall, I would say its still a good experience and exposure for our little boy and at the very least, he get a change in environment and did something different for a morning.     =)



Father & Son  - photo credit to Drama Mama

Thursday, 22 March 2012

Blast from the (not so) Past

It seemed like just yesterday when Little Fella's milk bottle was no bigger than his pooh bear companion ....

Pic taken when little fella was about 7 weeks old..

And Drama Mama has been lamenting recently that caps used to last on his head much longer.....


Little Fella at 5 months+



And just like that, our little baby is getting more independent everyday....





If you were to ask us now on which phase do we enjoyed the most, I don't think that we can really provide an answer as we have enjoyed every single moment of it and still do now.


"Children have neither past nor future; they enjoy the present, which very few of us do"
 Jean de la Bruyere



Tuesday, 20 March 2012

Siblings' rivalry?

Chanced upon these pictures while surfing the web today. Think its called Creative Children Photography. Cool, I like it!     =)





Source: http://www.jwlphotography.com/blog/

Wednesday, 14 March 2012

Fabulous February






Never too late to put it on record. Happy Anniversary Darling!    =)

Wednesday, 14 December 2011

Updates! - by Octdad

Didn't realise that there haven't been an entry on the blog for more than a month untill a reminder came in yesterday requesting for more postings (you know who you are).

As Little Fella transit from an infant to a young toddler nowadays, it's becoming more challenging as well as taxing to handle both an energetic and overly enthusiatic little boy AND a bulky camera strapped across your shoulder. Couple with the fact that mobile phones take pretty decent pictures and videos at a much more convenient set-up ( I barely notice my phone when its in my pocket), its no wonder that I have been leaving the camera at home more often....

Came across another blog recently where the blogger is also struggling with the convenience of social media where everyone simply "twits" or does "facebooking" updates of their daily lives and that she is also struggling to continue using blogs as the main means of updates. Well, I hope that I can have the required "stamina" to continue providing updates on this platform so that I will have a memory bank for reminiscence when Little Fella is not so little anymore   =)

Here's a few pictures taken last month when we were out celebrating Nai nai"s birthday by having dim sum at Min Jiang, Goodwood Park hotel.
















One of the signature dish, served individually and not available at buffet line..
















This is how little fella is being kept entertained nowadays...


















We also went to a "kampong farm" two weekends ago where Little Fella gets to say hello to some of the animals for the first time  =) 

Hi duckie!


















Feeding was allowed and food provided but Little Fella is still too young to try feeding the animals.

So this is how a real rooster looks like....



















Hi rabbits!



















Little Fella has started learning to walk and enjoys being on the ground with both feet moving in tandem. Guess it will be in no time before my boy takes off running all over the place.


















Realise that kids really do grow up fast and therefore a note to myself is to keep on taking more pictures!

































At times like this, I'm glad that I brought my camera along...

























































































































And finally last weekend, I was away on a short working trip to Manila and was without Drama Mama and Little Fella by my side for 2 nights. Although its only for a short while but its the first time that the three of us did not spend a night together...

Some pictures of the trip.

Cheap version of transport. Its called the Jeepney. Similar to the Tuk Tuk in Thailand but bigger in size.
















Hello Volcano!















Can you spot the volcano here?











Picture taken at an organic farm where I had one of my lunch there...
















Is this passion fruit?
















petals on water...



















That's all for the updates!    =)